Lesson 8 — Shut the fuck up and listen
When having a conversation who’s leading? How do you switch the lead? How do you add to the conversation? Where do you look and how do you act? These are all questions we unconsciously answer in our daily lives.
Improv teaches you to become more conscious of these questions.
Let’s say you are performing a scene with two other people. It’s all about mastering the art of knowing when to jump in and when not too. It requires you to listen and observe your surroundings before acting — This of course takes practice but to keep the energy flowing it’s important to say something that adds to the scene and doesn’t ruin the flow.
Even though you don’t want to ruin the rhythm, you also don’t want to overthink and not jump in at all – if you do throw a curveball into the conversation remember to steer it to keep the energy flowing till the next person picks it up, don’t just drop it and run.
I notice when I’m nervous I just jump into scenes and over complicate things. Like the time I burst into a dance routine and the scene was three of us waiting at a bus stop, everyone else was thinking what the hell is going on so I stopped dancing which made the scene awkward! In hindsight if I had kept dancing and everyone else joined in, it would have been a hilarious scene!
The trick is not to overthink things and keep actions simple, but if you do throw something out there run with it until the next person picks it up. Make sure there is no dead air.
Tip: Inhale before exhaling
Lesson 9 — Less words, more expressions
No emotion is boring and so is too many words. Improv teaches you to use more emotion and less words. Every time I spoke with exaggerated emotion the group would perk up, like the time I yelled with passion “l love chicken wings especially when the sauce is all over my beard”, it sounds weird I know, but the emotion made it compelling and made the audience laugh.
A great game we played was acting out scenes talking only in gibberish. Our partners had to guess what the scene was about. The only way to communicate the scene was to really exaggerate our emotions, show when we are happy, sad, scared. The trick is to keep things simple and really emphasis the emotion. Focus on getting the big strokes across not the small details. I acted out a scene about smashing a window playing golf in a field as a kid and getting told off by my parents. I focused on the details like pick up my golf clubs, walking to the field, which made it hard for my partner to guess what was going on. Had I of focused on the big strokes like smashing a window or being told off by my parents it may have been easier for my partner to understand.
Bold emotions and obvious references work best! Just keep things simple.
Tip: Cutout the extra words and replace with emotion

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Good job fellow improvisors!
So what’s next?
Diving into improv has been amazing. It’s helped me not worry as much and become more comfortable putting myself out there. I’ve discovered I love making people laugh and telling stories. I just need to keep finding ways to get better at that, keep putting myself out there and see where the journey takes me.
Key Takeaway
Life is filled with unexpected twists and turns. Don’t live by a script just keep improvising