I’ve always said that — if you want to be a writer — you must write the book that you feel is missing from the world. You must write the book that fills in that spot on the bookshelf that somehow feels empty to you. You must write the book that you yourself would love to read.
Similarly, if you are an artist, you must paint the picture you would like to see.
You must write the song you would like to hear.
You must build the house you would like to live in.
You take nothing, and you turn it into something: That’s creativity.
But maybe it’s like that with everything in life — not just the arts. Maybe the arts are just the most literal definition of taking nothing and making it into something. Maybe in all realms of life, you must somehow figure out how to create the things that are missing from you.
– Elizabeth Gilbert
26. Good art
27. A meal plan
28. A world view
My worldview: I believe that a good story, well told, can change the world.
29. An idea that will help you not be a starving artist
“I realised the bohemian life was not for me. I would look around at my friends, living like starving artists, and wonder, ‘Where’s the art?’ They weren’t doing anything. And there was so much interesting stuff to do, so much fun to be had.” P. J. O’Rourke
30. Your definition of success
“Success is no accident. It is hard work, perseverance, learning, studying, sacrifice and most of all, love of what you are doing or learning to do.” — Pele
“Success is a journey, not a destination. The doing is often more important than the outcome.” — Arthur Ashe
Make
31. A dinner diary
32. A business plan
Here’s a sample:
33. A list of next steps
Gary Keller has a ton of free stuff on his blog.
34. Someone else smile
Do it like Buddy Hackett. If you can!
35. A little step forward
36. A commonplace book
37. One small step forward (everyday)
“Somehow I can’t believe that there are any heights that can’t be scaled by a man who knows the secrets of making dreams come true. This special secret, it seems to me, can be summarized in four Cs. They are curiosity, confidence, courage, and constancy, and the greatest of all is confidence. When you believe in a thing, believe in it all the way, implicitly and unquestionable.” — Walt Disney
38. A planner that works for you
39. Space for failure
“It is impossible to live without failing at something, unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all, in which case you have failed by default.” — J. K. Rowling
40. Space for the unexpected
“All creative people want to do the unexpected.” — Hedy Lamarr
Connect
41. Even if you’re shy
42. With an email list
43. Off line
I have a perpetual daily challenge for myself: talk to a stranger. It’s the T (for talk) in my WRITER Framework.
44. With your people
If you’re a writer, Ninja Writers is your people! Come join us.
45. With a mastermind
46. With your inner editor
47. With an old friend
48. With your fear
“You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, ‘I lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.” — Eleanor Roosevelt
“I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear.” — Nelson Mandela
49. With the voices in your head
“Through pride we are ever deceiving ourselves. But deep down below the surface of the average conscience a still, small voice says to us, something is out of tune.” — Carl Jung
50. Out of your comfort zone
Watch
51. Old movies
52. Nature
“What is Art, monsieur, but Nature concentrated?” — Honore de Balzac
“Look deep into nature, and then you will understand everything better.” — Albert Einstein
53. People, in general
54. People who have already done what you want to do
55. People who have failed at what you want to do
56. Trends
“There are tons of people who are late to trends by nature and adopt a trend after it’s no longer in fashion. They exist in mutual funds. They exist in clothes. They exist in cars. They exist in lifestyles.” — Jim Cramer
57. How you talk to yourself
“If you hear a voice within you saying, ‘’You are not a painter,’’ then by all means paint… and that voice will be silenced.” — Gogh, Vincent Van
58. How you talk to other people
59. Your future jumping
Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans.
― John Lennon
60. Your time wasting
Stretch
61. Your imagination muscle.
62. Your curiosity muscle.
“We keep moving forward, opening new doors, and doing new things, because we’re curious and curiosity keeps leading us down new paths.” — Walt Disney
63. Your confidence muscle.
64. Your stick-to-it muscle.
“Start by doing what’s necessary; then do what’s possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible.” — Francis of Assisi
65. Your brave muscle.
66. Your connectivity muscle.
“Creativity is just connecting things. When you ask creative people how they did something, they feel a little guilty because they didn’t really do it, they just saw something. It seemed obvious to them after a while. That’s because they were able to connect experiences they’ve had and synthesize new things.” — Steve Jobs
67. Your think-outside-the-box muscle.
“Don’t spend time beating on a wall, hoping to transform it into a door.” — Coco Chanel
68.Your comfort zone
69. Your brain
70. Your capacity for frustration
“It took 10 months for me to learn to tie a lace; I must have howled with rage and frustration. But one day I could tie my laces. That no one can take from you. I profoundly distrust the pedagogy of ease.” — George Steiner
Learn
71. How to be bored
72. To set your boundaries
73. That your creative work is work-work
74. To have a thicker skin
75. To take constructive criticism
76. To embrace change.
“What if I told you 10 years from now your life would be exactly the same?
Doubt you’d be happy.
So, why are you afraid of change?”― Karen Salmansohn
77. Something you think you’re too old to learn
Try: roller skating, a language, drawing, playing an instrument, changing your own oil, rock climbing, pitching a curveball, ballroom dancing.
78. Something you should have learned when you were a kid
Try: The fine art of a nap, how to ask for help when you need it, how to color outside the lines, how to be okay with not knowing everything.
79. From masters
Engage with the masters of your art every day for 1000 days. Then see what happens.
80. How to say no and take no
This goes both ways:
“Sometimes “No” is the kindest word.” ― Vironika Tugaleva
Stop
81. One habit that’s holding you back.
“The most pernicious aspect of procrastination is that it can become a habit. We don’t just put off our lives today; we put them off till our deathbed.
Never forget: This very moment, we can change our lives. There never was a moment, and never will be, when we are without the power to alter our destiny. This second we can turn the tables on Resistance.
This second, we can sit down and do our work.” — Steven Pressfield
82. Comparing yourself to the people in front of you.
“Don’t compare your beginning to someone else’s middle.” — John Acuff
“Comparison is the thief of joy.” — Theodore Roosevelt
83. Tearing down your own house.
This one is about audacity. Actually — having the audacity to think your work is good, or at least has potential. If you’re in the habit of hating what you’re creating, stop that right now. Either the hating or the creating, your choice.
“The first quality that is needed is audacity.” Winston Churchill
84. Seeking approval
“Write with the door closed, rewrite with the door open. Your stuff starts out being just for you, in other words, but then it goes out. Once you know what the story is and get it right — as right as you can, anyway — it belongs to anyone who wants to read it. Or criticize it.” — Stephen King
85. Being afraid of trying new things
86. Not quitting when you should
“Winners quit fast, quit often, and quit without guilt.” — Seth Godin
87. Worrying about sunk costs
88. Hiding your light
“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people will not feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It is not just in some of us; it is in everyone and as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give others permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.” — Marianne Williamson
Tell me, what what is it you plan to do
with your one wild and precious life?
— Mary Oliver
89. Worrying about things you can’t change
90. Being an asshole
“Self-love is a good thing but self-awareness is more important. You need to once in a while go ‘Uh, I’m kind of an asshole.” — Louis C.K.
Start
91. Getting enough sleep
92. Asking
93. Building good habits
94. Watching TV
95. Exercising.
Here’s how I’m doing it.
96. Building income streams.
I’ll be teaching a class about this in summer 2017. It’s called Anti-Blogging for Creatives. Click below if you want to be on the wait list.
97. Giving yourself gold stars.
98. Using the 10 year rule.
When something seems too scary to start, to big to take on, too outside your comfort zone, ask this question: How will you feel when you look back in ten years?
Will you be sorry you tried? Will you be glad you took the risk?
99. Being generous.
“It takes generosity to discover the whole through others. If you realize you are only a violin, you can open yourself up to the world by playing your role in the concert.” — Jacques Yves Cousteau
100. Right now.
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